My child just came out as gay. This site is a resource for LDS families, created by LDS parents and professionals. It is not an official Church site. Click Here to learn how one family. Responded when their child came out. Before you do anything else, love your child! She has become emotionally vulnerable in trusting you with something precious a deeper understanding of who she is. He has likely spent years trying to understand his feelings, so this process for you may take time. What makes someone gay? .

By Their Fruits Ye Shall Know Them. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.